E & D Eileen & Derek

Q & A

If you have any questions, please feel free to ask.


When is the RSVP deadline?

The RSVP deadline closes at 12:00 AM ET on April 18, 2026.
Please RSVP on or before April 17, 2026 to ensure you can attend.


Where will the ceremony and reception take place?

The ceremony is to take place behind the Fair Oaks Farmhouse Restaurant (behind the double barns). The reception will take place in the banquet hall, which is the left of the double barns, as viewed from the front.


Will the ceremony be indoors or outdoors?

The ceremony is planned to be outdoors. However, there is a sheltered contingency should it rain.


Where is the hotel if I am staying the night, and do I need transportation?

The Fairfield Inn is connected to the Farmhouse Restaurant. The ceremony, reception, and hotel locations are all at the same place. See hotel block details to make a reservation!


Is there a registry or Honeyfund?

Yes, you may find our registry here. Please know, however, that your presence is a gift enough.


What should I wear?

Cocktail dress is desired. This means knee length to midi-length gowns, dress-shirt and slacks, or suit and tie. As the ceremony is planned to be outdoors, guests may want to plan dress shoes for walking in grass or dirt.


Are children allowed?

Children are a joy and are welcome if invited. If you have children, please note alcohol will be served and the reception atmosphere will not be catered towards children.


What should I do if I have food allergies?

If you have food allergies, please do not hesitate to let Eileen know so that she can work with you.